Write to one person

Published about 2 months ago • 3 min read

Hey Reader,

Tom Brady focuses on football and nothing else. It’s his life. He dreams about football, studies it, obsesses over it, and dedicates himself to getting better at his craft.

His manager, Ben Rawitz, was surprised to find that Tom really did not pay attention to anything else.

“Did you see the news?”

“What news?” Tom said.

There was a big story that had broken, and Ben thought surely Tom knew about it.

Nope. He was focused.

That’s when Ben decided to start sending an email to Tom every week with current events, updates on what was going on in the sports world, real estate, and more.

Ben was writing for one person: Tom.

Fast forward 6 months, and Ben was at a Patriot’s event. Another player came up to him.

“I love the email you send to all the players!”

“What?” Ben said, confused.

Another player chimed in to explain Tom forwards the email Ben sends him to all of the players.

Without realizing it, Ben had been writing a newsletter.

He eventually turned the emails he wrote for Tom into a newsletter called Playing Field. It’s an invite-only newsletter limited to 1,000 people. In order to be on it, you have to be a professional sports team player (or work closely with one).

There’s a whole other story in there about limiting your audience and when it might make sense to put a limit on subscribers that I might talk about at some point.

But the thing I want to highlight today is Ben wrote for one person—Tom—and in doing so, he wrote something that resonated highly with many people who are like Tom.

So many people start with the desire to reach a large number of people and water down their message so it will apply to everyone. But this is exactly the wrong way to go about achieving that goal.

If you want to resonate with many people, write to one person.

Have one person in mind for your newsletter, your book, or your video script.

Not only should you write to one person in terms of the topics you choose, but you should also write to one person in the way you speak.

Don’t open with “Hey everyone,” because that immediately makes your message feel impersonal.

Write the way you would write a message to one person you know well. Those are the kinds of messages people forward to a friend.

Who do you know that would resonate with this message? Feel free to forward it.


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